“We are like chameleons, we take our hue and the color of our moral character, from those who are around us.
“An excellent man, like precious metal, is in every way invariable; A villain, like the beams of a balance, is always varying, upwards and downwards
“A vigorous temper is not altogether an evil. Men who are easy as an old shoe are generally of little worth.
“A man who pretends to understand women is bad manners. For him to really to understand them is bad morals.
“What is character but the determination of incident? What is incident but the illustration of character?
“The hell to be endured hereafter, of which theology tells, is no worse than the hell we make for ourselves in this world by habitually fashioned our characters in the wrong way.
“We are all ready to be savage in some cause. The difference between a good man and a bad one is the choice of the cause.
“It is well for the world that in most of us, by the age of thirty, the character has set like plaster, and will never soften again.